he stopped giving me attention

This makes me Am I the problem here? Its going to make me fall out of love as he is so defensive and cannot solve the issue. Hes now begging for me back , saying hes going to change. Its okay to build from scratch instead of being in an emotionally abusive relationship and constantly being destroyed in to nothing. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and I just dont know how to feel about things. Is he older? I met other guys got into relationships but didnt work. Ive had absolutely enough. First, the more you push, the more he will pull back, because whatever his reason is, the pressure from you wont help. We girls if determined, are so much more stronger than guys Angela. Each weekend he has been helping his DJ friend ( his BFF), or going out with best buddies. Never happened. I asked him a couple of times why he doesnt put any effort and he just told me since we live together I shouldnt have to and I get that point but it doesnt mean just completely give up on putting a effort into the relationship. I have been dating my BF for 7 months now. Trust me, because I have gone through absolute bad times and still risen like a phoenix. I would like him to make effort, look up someplace Id like and invite me to go. I cannot communicate with him. He may not be the person for you. Especially if you have a SON!! Find the courage to leave him! Dont settle for this. I begun to be desperated just to win him back but hes tough enough to avoid me and forget everything we had. That bothers me because on his birthday I did get him a little something and also, called his sister to get his favorite chocolate cake and chocolate icing recipe of his moms who is deceased. After my birthday on the 2nd I was 16 and he was 18 (not a big age difference and its not illegal where Im at) and so i wanted to meet him in person. Normally he kept our video call within 15 minutes, and he will keep quiet for a week after the call, but last one was lasted over half an hour and he went into silent for a few weeks after that. My boyfriend had proposed me to marry him on 3rd month dating.. then he was stressed up with his business he didnt know how to handle .. i started helping him and give him directions.. he was getting through in a good way ,though at times i had to push him as he haf started giving up.. but then he broke up with me while am at my work place .. it was terrible..but i couldnt let my personal issues interfere with my work i locked the door of my office and kept on working with tears.. three months later he comes back .. but again he hasnt mentioned he needs a favour .. but he kinda mentioned about something that i was helping him out with telated to his business.. i offered him help yet lol.., and the matter is going well on his favour and he has pulled off again.. bi communication.. am glad i had asked him once if he just came around cause he wanted favour.. he said he still have strong feelings for me.. but deep inside i know he is just using. Hes never really posted pictures of us on social media and hes been very non intimate. I am slowly trying to make new friendships and to enjoy myself with people who love me. and that is why up to now im still here with him despite the unhappiness. Those arent just low relationship expectations, theyre unhealthy patterns of behavior. But I always gave him the benefit of the doubt. When i and my parents call him to come home(as our culture) he dont bother about him.. That was another thing to disappoint me more. We have amazing communication, we text all day everyday, see each other at least 1-2 days a week, we dont argue much, our sex life is greatMaybe its just because this is my only problem that it feels like a big deal? Heres my concern-We live 70kms apart amd stick to phone calls and texts and online communication. I allowed his lack of effort to continue for far too long. This is hard for me because Ive always been a helpless romantic, and Im always doing little cute things for him, not because I expect it in return but because I genuinely want to. You may have to loosen your attachment and allow your boyfriend to withdraw or even leave. And silly me, I was waiting for his reply all night.I know hes got alot to deal with rn and all Im asking for is a time-to-time update so I can be at peace.Is that too much to ask for? Are circumstances in your boyfriends life affecting how he relates to you and others? he said its his karma for leaving me behind. He says he loves me but I dont see him actively showing his love. Don't Ignore the Role of Physical Attraction. For a while there I was wondering if he was a narcissist, player or just using me. I did not even have to think about going this is what people do for each other. I was so happy I found him. We look for people to fill our emptiness and when they arent meeting the standards we become emotionally unstable. But he feels that I would have a better chance getting a job were he lives then him getting a Job where I live but thats not the point. I discussed all these issues with him 2 days before. Please help? I asked when he might feel comfortable seeing me again. Nothing. I feel like I & this relationship deserve more. The first two years of your relationship were his acting skills at the finest. Im still in high school. HE NEVER CLEANS. He makes comments like some of us work for a living which is one of his huge baggage in life- the fact that hes a greedy mother $#_&@ and chose to be a workaholic and have no life even in his 20s so he expects everyone else to do the same. But Ive just always felt like im not one of his priorities. Even seemingly harmless criticism and patronizing comments, too, can take a toll. My boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up recently, but within a few days, he decided he wanted to get back together to work things out. No romantic dates (I know a walk in a park can be romantic but not when thats all you ever do together), no random little surprises from his side, no dinners etc. I always let him initiate texting. He never wants to go anywhere or do anything. September came around. Hello Crystal, I am very interested in what you have said, do you mind to give more details please? Hi! Im slowly giving up but everytime i try to let go he acts like he rlly loves me and he wants me back. I didnt see him so I thought maybe he didnt want to show up. Its been hard but there are better things to come. It only got better when the pandemic hit and it seemed like we wouldnt see each other very much although we live 10 minutes apart in different towns. Ive held up my end and have been a loving girlfriend but Im not getting much back, but am also afraid of being alone. I finally had to let him go. I really love him and he is my first. Ive been with my boyfriend since July of 2020. ? Like WTF is your goal, here, exactly? 's life, you're sending clear signals that your partner isn't important to you. Its hard to let go of someone you love, and its not that easy for me. Am I expecting too much from him? I dont want to push him away. Now we seem so disconnected. I reslect to my culture. we recently got back together after a break up. You, me, and probably thousands of other girls are in the same boat right now with the Coronavirus. About me. He has motivation and spends money on doing that but what about me lol, he puts no effort into our relationship. We must set boundaries and let no man cross them. I am an emotional person and I tend to cry. I am this woman. I think that might make him feel better. Not only that sexual favors have been one sided for a long time now. I feel its all one sided. I had an awful night at work as a nursing assistant with 18 patients who were ungrateful and nurses who treated me like crap after doing everything for everyone around me. He told me he loved me within weeks of us meeting. I feel very angry that his being occupied with school took him away from me and suffocated what little was left of an already struggling relationship. First I asked him if we could level up our relationship through meeting his and my family. He said he loved me pretty much from the beginning, but never made an effort to see me or make plans unless I suggested it. Maybe he no longer loves you the way he used to. forgive me for my wrong grammars im a filipina and im not that good in expressing myself in english. Im at a loss. When i say effort drops off, he takes hours to reply to me despite being very active on social media and those replies are one word conversation enders, isnt bothered about spending time with me, tells me he is busy with his family, but I will find out hes actually with his friends, I plan days out in advance but he makes me aware he wont be able to attend because of workbut then when the time comes round to it, he is free but is going out with his friends in advance. He needs a chill pill and a real wake up call and renewed investment in life vs his career. Its also about giving a relationship the time The one time I did ask him to pick me up at the train, he forgot. Advice please? Maybe hes just tired from working too much? If they are willing- great! They may not come true. He was fine with it so we just started to say it to each other. Also dont listen to a guys words only watch their actions. He does not take me out for surprise outings or does not plan anything for us to do as a couple, but still i do not complain much about that. One month later. He is a freeloader. We are in LDR. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. I dont do things just to expect it in return but you just want reassurance that youre appreciated. Show that you love them, laugh, argue, help eachother. So guess what? The last time I told him about him not making me a priority, he said felt he wasnt good enough for me. Made me feel so bad. I dont know if Im being dramatic but its just hard sometimes when you feel like you love someone more than they love you. I would wait it out just a bit, though, because hes probably dealing with a lot right now. If this doesnt work for you if he disrespects, ignores, or even abuses you then you need to decide what to do. I forgot the bin was being collected and it was due to arrive in a few hours, he didnt take it out. He doesnt make an effort to recognize and validate your feelings. There could be many reasons why your partner is not showing you the affection you desire, and according to therapist, dating and relationship coach and former matchmaker Lauren Korshak, one major reason could be that they are suffering from a crisis. He is failing to realize that I am being affected too. when it comes to affection, i literally have to initiate everything. Ive asked him to work on this and as the article says, he says he will and he does..for about a half a day. All I want is for us to share things I love together and not just his hobbies and interests. I feel like a roommate or guest or kept woman instead of woman he loves. And then he apologize to me and said he just feel pitty of me. he said he had been trying to email me but i dont rlly believe it I never got anything. Wow girl as Im reading this I cant believe I didnt write it lol. Back as a baby, he said the vet said not to let her sleep or have that on for a while because she is a labradoodle and it makes their hair very knotty and bad for their skin. This may be too shallow for some but I have never receive a single petal from my boyfriend lol. If you havent recognized it yet, you are in an abusive relationship. Oct 1, 2017 I was at the Rought 91 shooting in Vegas, Febr 2018 my husband at the time decided to go back to being a Jehovahs witness and puts a ton of stress on our 17 years of marriage, March 2018 get fired from new job of 2 months, July 2018 he cheats on me and divorces me. He only got me a childrens bear . Since a month or so these fights are causing me to have panic attacks and he doesnt care when tell him how much it affects me. i yearn for good morning texts or check ins throughout the day. My boyfriend is Lebanese and given the situation there (economic crisis, unemployment rate and poverty rate are getting higher), he began manifesting symptoms of an overly stressed man. I didnt hear from him till early Sunday morning when I drunk texted him. The only time hes gotten me flowers was when I left him one time. He stopped initiating sex and one day i found saved Google image searches under very specific terms saved on his phone and realized why i wasnt getting laid anymore. Omgod girl leave him. And what if something bad happened to him which I hope not at least I know who to contact. However he has an interview for one. Its hard to let go, especially when all I want is to feel his warmth. Like we will be having a nice time and something sets him off and he just spirals. I dont think my boyfriend knows how to deal with someone like me. Im not sure where you landed with your relationship, but I hope things are better for you. I dont want to much. One would think he would have learned his lesson and did something special this year. We may have jumped into it a little fast but we knew each other so well and things were going great. He didnt court me. Maybe I just need to not be so dependent and work on myself. I spend half my time daydreaming about being actually taken care of by someone. You see, now when you decide to leave him, its not because you dont love him, but its because you love yourself and respect yourself far more than you love him. It's easy for people to say, "It's He tries to make me think Im crazy when I talk him about it. Especially because hes not an introverted person, he has a lot of friends he goes out with often to play board games or to bars. He knows im going to have sex with him if he initiates it because im 36 years old and NEVER EVER EVER have sex. Should I leave? We both still live at home and even tho hes nearly 21, his parents still have some control over him, he doesnt talk back to them and theyre weird about him staying in my house and doing stuff with me (sometimes not all the time!) The man I end up with will not leave me hanging feeling sad and confused. Hed say something really mean, watch my cry and if I asked to talk about it, Hed tell me why do we have to always talk about it or why cant you just drop it and not bring it up my favorite was Im not apologizing because Im not sorry, you just like making a big deal over nothing one time I asked about marriage (he took me to the red wood Forrest and asked me to marry him 2 years prior to this comment) he told me hed never marry a b**ch. I am not allowed upstairs in their house either, it just makes me feel uncomfortable if I go to his. If your boyfriend never made an effort to begin with, then he may simply be lazy or indifferent to building and maintaining a relationship with you. Ill call him daily or send him texts but he only leaves me on seen and doesnt reply. Its too much. He ignores you. But I feel as though he does not see the page that I am on, is there any way I can do that without it being an argument? Dont ever think you are alone btw! Then you explain and get everything fyn between you then after like two weeks he will he will give attitude again from no where five minutes he texts with love the other minutes he will text as if he doesnt care . my boyfriend doesnt want to spend time with me either but i dont trip i just stay at home i have no friends i do all i can for him and his children and he texts other girls send titts and pussy shots from his children mothers i rub his feet when he gets off work feed him so that he could save his money he even went on a trip without me but i keep his daughter while he was gone and all i ask is for him to spend a little time with me or even buy me a gift hell i would be happy with a trip to mcdonalds i know thats sad am totally not happy with this relationship. He however is a very intelligent, high functioning person with autism. You should definitely read the book why men love b*tches this really goes into depth on why men do that. You can only hold on to hoping that things change for so long. Id rather focus my energy on someone who can! My boyfriend and I have been living together for 8 years and have three kids together. Dont EXPECT him to show up for it, but try to share it with him a little bit. Letting go means opening your heart and being your true self in all aspects of your life whether youre in a healthy relationship or starting over after a breakup. Its more about him being a hero. Leaving a person you love is one of the hardest things to do. He is trying to save the world on his own. Doesnt want to go do nothing but work on projects for the house. He said he loved me but that he was not happy with me and that it has been a long time since he began feeling this way. I say I never give advice, but this is one thing I want you to know: you have to build a life outside your relationship with your boyfriend. As well as this, I makes me question if he is speaking to other females behind my back again. He has learning and growing to do. Letting Go of Someone You Loveisnt about getting over it. Letting go doesnt mean forgetting, pretending you didnt lose an important relationship, or guarding your heart so you dont get hurt again. Also i didnt know if i could put this but yes I did give myself to him and it was my first time part of me regrets it and part of me doesnt but I promise it was legal but yeah. i just wish he would be more emotionally available. Its been an extremely rocky relationship but has the tendency to resolve itself. I have been doing some self-evaluation to determine the role I played in the relationship. I MEAN EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN LIFE BUT I WOULD INSIST ON HIM CHANGING THE DRINKING NOW OR LATER YOU COULD BE LIVING MY LIFE. That same night, we agreed to date. Im an emotional person but I always try to talk and let him know Im upset so that he knows not to act a certain way. Im planning to attend grad school this coming August and I havent manage to get all my stuff in yet because Im busy with my kiddos, house chores and helping him with work. Now that we have a son and Im not as fit as I used to be what does he think of me now? I dont always have it my way though because hes dealing with personal problems that have stretched for months. Do you feel loved? High on mine, low on his. Im certain when he got up in the middle of the night drunk and angry because I was trying to cuddle and woke him up (he got dressed and turned all the lights on to start manically cleaning the house) that he probably threw them in the garbage. kissing, hugging, sex, cuddling, EVERYTHING! When I try to talk to him about my feelings he never ever knows how to react and just completely closes off from me. You need to rest your hopes, dreams and future on a love that never fails, a river that never runs dry. My boyfriend had a terrible marriage and an even worse divorce. Now my mom did not know about my boyfriend i was afraid to tell her cause she probably wouldnt approve that he didnt go to school. This person flakes when we have plans even after I said that Im not here for that. It could be that your partner is losing interest and doesnt know how to communicate that with you," says marriage and family therapist Lynsie Seely. He is quite affectionate and does make sure the bills are paid etc. He never makes an effort to pick me up or come over my house. I am insecure and scared because all my past relationships,Ive been either cheated on or dumped. Its been almost two years and weve been inseparable ever since but lately it seems like something has changed. Every time I ask, he gets upset, and starts an argument, so why do I bother? Thats the only way you will know how he truly feels. Im still dissatisfied I guess. He does not even get up in the morning and brush his teeth, put on deodorant ,etc. The three emotions you suggested we wrote down mine were: Last on the priorities, unloved, lonely/lost. If anything is like now hes got this new job hes checked out and wants a new life. Right now hes not even talking to me. It can make you feel insecure like theres something wrong with you. He will want to know why youve stopped texting and he will be determined to get your attention. Any thoughts ppl? In the first year of the relationship it was really good and he made an effort to be with me, and I felt like he really loved me. Some of the things that he was doing I perceived them differently than how he intended them. So i moved out and got my own place and we continued dating. When he just cuts me off or just blindly follows what his mum says which is most of the time unreasonable it just makes me feel like he doesnt care too much about me, like he isnt willing to fight for me. I sometimes wonder if my daughter was dating someone like him, if Id tell her to ditch him. I have asked him to write more often if we do not physically meet so often, but I dont want to keep pushing him for more attention. Hes been going through a bit of a struggle with his mental health lately so Ive been trying really hard not to hold how hes been distant over him because I do understand it and I dont want to pry. He knew my day was not going well and that I have dinner ready for him every single night and just once, I ask him to just do it for me! I feel like Im the only one putting any effort for us to spend time together. it was boring and dull. He bought her a Mothers Day card. , hopefully each day, I will start to become stronger, and maybe me and him could continue with our friendship as time passes. Theres always a chance that this will trigger self-reflection, and he will crawl back, and you can decide whether to give a second chance. I moved across the world during the honey moon phase of our relationship. Maybe he will brush his teeth at lunchtime but often he just smells like armpits and looks like a scruff and then wants to come to our clean bed that way. Its been almost 2 yrs with him and I hot him gifts ( handmade thoughtful gift and a tshirt) he hot me nothing for my bday. You arent asking for too much. Fear of commitment/fear of pain (especially if engaging with you triggers those emotions that remind him of a past failed relationship). He is playing you and gas lightning you! The lady was there, I was so angry, I wanted to punch her for lying tto me, but my guy was protecting her, he was even telling me to live his house, he humiliated me in front of her, he came last week to my place and tried explaining things, he even spent the night at my house, I feel so stupid, because he is not putting any effort to fix things between us, I feel so stupid for letting him spent the night in my house, why do I still love him even after he has clearly heart broken me, will I ever move from this nightmare? Open your heart to Jesus; listen to His call on your life. Thats was our first time seeing each other in person (granted, Id seen him randomly beforehand in elementary school years before that). He said he was going to do it. He even had a heartbreaking confession that he has been going through the years. Yes, I feel as if hes pulled away from me. Getting older I desired to go on dates more and more. My mom knew smthn was up so she said no to taking me. The thing is there seemed to be no problem in our relationship, i love him and i feel like its mutual but about two weeks ago he began to claim that i was cheating on him (which Im not) and well ik its happened to him before. He doesnt tell me he loves me very often, never compliments me, doesnt text or call on the days we are apart and due to his lifestyle and commitments we see each other the same 3 evenings every week, and it has been the same 3 evenings for 3 years with the exception of one or two evening. We have had problems in the past about him flirting with girls on social media but never that Ive known for him to actually meet someone and get their number and asking her out. What can i do to walk out of this toxic relationship? WebI was recently "set up" by a friend by him giving my number to a friend he thought would be a good match for me. It sounds to me like hes not into you. He had PTSD, bi polar disorder and anxiety. My friend found someone perfect really quickly on Tinder 3 years ago, and they just got married in November. Its like he wants to cause as much damage as he can verbally to win and I dont get it. Youre still young and should take that same advice youd give your daughter. I dont think Ill ever want to be in another relationship again. Me and him were in that I rlly like you stage lol. Girl, you need to ditch him. This has all happened within the last 3 months. We are here Reach out. he would nvr go out of his way to do anything for me now and it makes me wonder why because what am i lacking? Hes really bad at texting and sometimes we dont really talk on the phone cause he said he was tired. BALANCE comes easier for women vs. men but does not mean we have to settle. Every weekend is now him doing chores, cleaning, going to the dry cleaners and food store at 8am and by the early afternoon the incessant yawning starts. HE DOESNT TAKE THE TRASH OUT ANYMORE. Im very worried and actually considering going to where he is and seeking answers. This became such an issue that, we fight basically every days I do everything to make his life easier. It confuses us because we know the love ie there. And the only way to do that to take more care of our own selves, love ourselves moretruly love our self! He will see what he lost. So, my boyfriend and i have known each other our entire lives. No girl its perfectly normal to miss how things where in the beginning! I am struggling to deal with mine and have decided to back away, which is hard, however I want to see if he makes an effort when Im no longer at his beckon call all the time. Find a low-key, nonthreatening way to approach him. But he appriciate my participation in some kind of sexul things. I have brough up some of the issues and he acts clueless and doesnt know what to do. I visit him at work a couple nights a week and bring him dinner as he works second shift. 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